Have you ever heard of Swinger rules? Do I put them on before I start or while I'm watching? These are some questions that couples ask me
Well, like in every game, we have clear rules in case one of us ends up fighting... so here is my first piece of advice: sit down with your partner to talk about what you do want to do and what you don't want to do... be clear and sit down with that freedom to speak things as they are because if not, later in action there will be not very pleasant surprises.
I'm going to tell you some of my rules and see if you start to get an idea...
Always do everything with your partner.
For example, if you are going to see 1/3 have a threesome, if you are going to see a girl, a man another couple, if you are going to a party where there is going to be sex and so on, then are you going to be there with your partner, you're not going to go alone, you're not going to be messaging each other out there saying, Oh, I'm really hot, let's go see each other or things like that...
This is what the rule that I have with my partner refers to... since for me that is cuckolding, but I also know couples who have those rules and I respect them 100%, it just doesn't work for me.
So the first rule, everything with your partner and the most important thing, most important in a swinger couple is communication, why? Because I have to tell my partner everything... My partner needs to know what I want, what I like, what I want to do, what my innermost desires are...
That's the only rule I have.
What other rules do I know?
In these 10 years I have met all kinds of couples....
Once at the TTR Hotel we were there at the pool and we started interacting with a Ukrainian couple, after a little touching, she told us we have only one rule... no tongue kisses on the mouth...
I say for my taste it is a strange rule of mine, but well, each person and each culture has, has its beliefs. But the funniest thing about all this is that after 30 minutes they broke it themselves....
So that's what I tell you, the rules are not written in stone, they can be changed by agreement.
Another rule that I have come across when they are at a party, the two of them have to be in the same room, that is, they don't play separately...
If, for example, it's a party of 15 or 20 couples and there are several play booms, well, I mean, for example, I'm my partner.
We have to be in the same room playing, that's another rule, it's very respectable.
Another rule that I have come across, for example you go to an event, and the woman is unable to because Andrés came, the man also does nothing to show solidarity with his partner.
A rule that I have come across a lot, and this is more with new couples, you can touch each other, fuck next to each other but not exchange penetration... I have seen this one very common... like they don't give that They leave the next step of penetration exclusively to their partner.
Another very common rule is to see couples who only play with women, and only have threesomes with women... in my opinion that seems kind of macho because he can play and I can't... but everyone has their rules and they respect.
Once it happened to me with a couple that I told him... look into my eyes, I grabbed his face, while he was penetrating me... and he told me that they are his partner, they have a period, that we don't see each other. eyes because we generate that connection... which they only do between themselves.
Another common mega thing that they always break up is that we are never going to repeat it, we are not going to generate that bond... just one fuck and that's it... that hahaha everyone I know broke them, that's why in our case we have a group that has been around for longer. of 3 years (which is growing month by month) with people who end up being close friends...
One last rule that I saw is to have secrets between couples, to mention when they don't like something or want to leave... I don't know if people got this from the movie, which I commented on in another post 2+2 by Adrian Swar.
So tell me a little more.
What rules do you know?
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