In this post I'm going to give you some tips on what to do and what not to do when I go to a SW party.
Before starting there are many types of SW parties, private ones in houses of 4 or 5 couples, parties of more than 50 couples and parties in hotels… they all have different objectives but your behavior should basically be the same in all 3.
First of all you must be very clear about what your objective is when going to the party, is it to flirt, to get numbers, just to meet people, to go see how many people you can fuck, for them to see you fuck… what is your objective? Keep in mind that paying for a Swinger event does not guarantee you sex… I mention this because I don't like people who think that by paying for a party everyone should get it and then they get disappointed because it doesn't happen… whether you match or not is already a matter of social skills that you have!
Then I always recommend that if you are single, you go with another couple or get some friends to go with, it will be easier to interact, many couples have taboos with singles, so it's better to handle it that way.
The main rules of any Swinger party are….
No means no, if someone you approach doesn’t want anything to do with you, you must respect that and not bother them anymore.
Bring your own condoms and pick them up.
It’s not a problem, if you want to get drunk, it’s better to go to a bar… because down there it won’t work, hehe, and the woman looks so horrible drunk throwing up…
Do not take photos or video without consent, many people have anonymity and do not want their family to find out.
Always be respectful, friendly and clean.
For me those are the golden rules, if they are broken the person will not be invited again or they can even be kicked out of the party.
Another thing I recommend as hygiene is to bring gum or breath spray, girls who squirt please bring a towel, it's not cool to fuck all wet afterwards... also carry wet wipes in your bag, after dancing and sweating it's important to clean yourself up especially down there if they're going to give you oral.
If the parties are themed try to respect it, those dynamics are cool, see how the other person is dressed, flirt with them...
Something super important is to make eye contact with other people, touch, touch... that shows the other person or couple that you're interested in them... you have to do a little foreplay... they're not going to go straight to fuck if they've never seen them in their lives... imagine if you're at the party in a corner with a bad face, bad vibes, no one is going to approach you!!
And this is no less important, please Men, singles, that's where I've seen it the most... If you want to participate in an action that's taking place you must ask permission, you must be nice and touch, and wait to be accepted. Don't take out your dick and put it in the girl's mouth, and much less try to fuck her while there are two or three couples interacting and you don't know them... respect please...
Tell me what other recommendations should be taken into account.
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